Monday, July 8, 2024

Curtis A Wheat

Ladies and Gentlemen,

We gather here today to honor and remember Curtis, a man whose life was marked by both incredible resilience and deep challenges. Born on November 2, 1970, Curtis was a father, a grandfather, an Army veteran, and a survivor of immense personal battles.

Curtis's journey through life was anything but easy. From witnessing a horrific act of self-harm in the military that left him with PTSD to struggling with addiction and homelessness, he faced obstacles that would have defeated many. Yet, Curtis always found a way to push through. He fought tirelessly to overcome the demons that haunted him, and on July 17, 2023, he celebrated a significant milestone—his clean date.

Curtis was a father who loved his children—Arielle, Katelyn, Dylan, and Joel—and a proud grandfather to Olivia. He always wanted to be a dad when he grew up, and despite the difficulties he faced, his love for his family remained a guiding light in his life.

His struggle with mental health was a significant part of his story. Diagnosed with PTSD in 2015 and borderline personality disorder in 2023, Curtis faced his battles head-on, using Dialectical Behavior Therapy to manage his symptoms. His determination to find peace and stability was unwavering.

Curtis's life was also marked by heartbreak and betrayal. His relationships, particularly with Antonella, brought both joy and pain. He faced false accusations and legal battles with courage, seeking justice and standing up for his truth. Despite the turmoil, Curtis never lost his sense of humor or his ability to find light in the darkest of times.

Curtis was a man who never resorted to violence, always choosing to internalize his struggles. His defense mechanism was to hide and disappear, a testament to the deep wounds he carried from childhood. He was a victim of circumstances, yet he always strived to be better, to heal, and to move forward.

As we remember Curtis, let us honor his resilience, his love for his family, and his relentless fight against the odds. He was a man who faced immense challenges but never gave up. He found strength in his darkest moments and continued to push forward, always hoping for a better tomorrow.

Curtis, your journey was tough, but your spirit was unbreakable. You have left an indelible mark on the hearts of those who knew you. May you find the peace and rest that eluded you in life. We will remember you always, with love and respect.

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