is this what marriage is all about?

Is this the type of interaction one would anticipate from a woman who has spent eighteen years in matrimony? Should she be involved in discussions with individuals of the opposite gender or engaging in extensive online communities with such titles? I unexpectedly stumbled upon this revelation several months ago, and to this day, I remain speechless. It is true that I have made my fair share of missteps over the years, but I have never allowed them to besmirch the sanctity of the sacred promises I exchanged on my wedding day.. 

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/u/wishtobehappy4

1/18/2017, 3:18:05 AM

I forgot to mention that I'm originally from NY but have been living in TX for a long while. I'm really not that crazy about this state at all but the job market is good here vs. cost of living as well. But...I miss the northeast so bad. So...how was your day today?

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/u/wishtobehappy4

1/17/2017, 6:43:53 PM

Thank you for your reply. Things have been wrong for a long while. But, it seems worse lately. We just don't even talk much anymore. It's awful. :( Not sure there is much special about me. I'm a nurse and have been for many years. Would love to continue my education and I'm considering going back to college....to finish what I started a few years ago. I guess I would consider my best feature...physically, maybe eyes and hair. Emotional/mentally would have to be nurturer and honest. How about you?

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1/14/2017, 4:15:26 AM

Been married for 18 years...I have 4 kids, also amazing. My marriage sounds a lot like yours except I'm the one who's tried to be nice (to a fault!) Counseling has been a joke....he doesn't think it's necessary or important enough to really try. Divorce would be difficult for pretty much the same reasons you have. Hard on the kids etc. I could use advice, talking, and fill in the blank. I am a romantic and I'm incredibly lonely. Let me know if you'd like to chat on here as well.